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joshuagourgues

How come nights of marriage counseling always seem to end with disagreeing and arguments? :-/

asked Apr 9, 2009 at 5:06 by joshuagourgues

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Yahoo Answers Well..... you broke it off! That means it's over. Maybe not so much huh? Compromise is a difficult idea. Easy to embrace when we are on the cat birds seat, but, not so much when we have a want or need, something that the other possesses. You need him, yet you feel the power of personal choice and are willing to veto any and all compromises he has set, for your own time table. True, you can set sail for calmer waters, but, something tells me you like the turbulence he puts to your ship! Listen, simply sit down and list all the pros and cons. If you can list nothing but the pros to stick to your guns, then you are lying to yourself. Compromise is nothing but a tool to use if it assists your time table. To tell you the truth, compromise is not necessarily always the best choice! If you are waiting till you are guaranteed security with a degree or better job, then it is a wise choice.
answered Apr 9, 2009 at 5:12 by Yahoo Answers